Birth is completely unpredictable. You can guess. But in the end, it’s that. A big ole Guess.
When will labor start? First labor 27 hours and the second only 2 hours? Contractions are really close and steady, but I’m only 3 cm?! Contractions JUST started and I’m pushing?! So-and-So’s started like this so mine will too? Nope.
Ladies, it’s a solid guess. And you just have to roll with it. Understand “rolling with it” and your labor and delivery will be easier. Not pain-free, but easier.
I got the Labor Started text, but something told me to go. I hit the road and I got the next text “She’s complete. Get here now.” Not the text you want during a rainy rush hour. But you drive and roll with it.
So did Melanie and Michael. He rushed home. She didn’t worry about setting up the birth pool. Found an old tablecloth from a previous birthday party and laid it on the bed. No use ruining good sheets and a mattress. I showed up and she was calm but in full labor. There was no smile to greet me. She was ready to meet her third baby. She was in her strength. She was already accessing her power. Silent. Strong breaths. Demanded silence and asked for comfort. She was in the birth zone. For a split second she questioned her ability (every woman does). Amy and Michael supported and reminded her, “YOU CAN DO THIS. Meet your baby after this next push.”
And then I saw it come over her body. She knew it was time.
Minutes later she held her baby and introduced her two girls to their new sibling.
I photographed her second birth and she let Daughter 1 announce the Baby 2’s gender. I loved that scene and was even cuter because she announced the wrong gender. Easily done, Folks. But everyone laughed. Baby 3’s gender would be revealed by Daughter 2. “It’s a boy.” Everyone reacts. Two girls and a boy! A couple minutes later, the midwife whispers to Michael, “You might want to check again…” History repeated itself and the room erupts with laughter. They rolled with it.
Look at those smiles? Look at the love?
This family rolls with life because they have each other.
And because they have faith.
It was an honor and joyous to watch the first time.
It’s inspiring to watch a second time.
Thanks for letting me roll with you
Special thanks to Well Rounded Midwifery. Having a baby soon? Call her first. And then call me. You won’t regret either call. Just saying…