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June 10 :: 10

By the time you’re reading this, I’m officially in an office.  Right now, I’m probably desperately trying to catch on.  I’m probably worried about finding the bathroom or how to get more coffee into my system.  I was so happy that Carmen and her family were able to visit before today.  I adore her entire clan.  I wish we lived closer, but honestly we’d get into a shit ton of fun/trouble.  Here’s the first full day as a group of 5 boys and two couples take on Columbus.

Head over and check out DeAnna’s day!

 

 

 

 

Carmen - That was a really great day. I miss your damn faces!June 10, 2013 – 12:42 pm

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jess lewis - this looks like such a fun day, i know it was full of laughs!June 10, 2013 – 8:30 pm

Jill Dyer Greenwood - The black and white of Theo? Oh, god, is that beautiful!June 10, 2013 – 11:13 pm

Rachel Devine - Camera in a shower cap? Brilliant!June 11, 2013 – 12:06 am

Erika Ray Photography - It’s a ziploc with a hole cut out. We’re resourceful bitches.June 11, 2013 – 12:34 am

Erika Ray Photography - He is one pretty kid.June 11, 2013 – 12:34 am

Breanna Peterson - um, this looks like a blast- lucky ladies :) !June 15, 2013 – 5:50 pm

Lazy Gal Binds

This is my favorite part of the entire quilt.  Binding.  I’ve started quilts just so I can bind something while camping.  It’s true.  You can make your binding on the basis, but that freaks me out.  Ripping is so much easier for me.  I make mine straight.  If I was doing a curved project, basis binding would be smarter.

Let’s do some math first.

You’ll need 20 extra inches of binding for your quilt.  Extra is always nice.  If your quilt is 200 inches, you’ll need 220 inches.  Now you need to figure out how many strips.  Let’s say you have 1/2 yard of fabric for binding.  This means you’ve got 18 inches of fabric to rip or cut.  Do some simple division and you’ll figure out you’ll need 13 strips of binding from the 1/2 yard.  After the fabric has been squared up, I start ripping 2 1/4 inch strips.  Sometimes I iron those long strips.  Sometimes I don’t.

Take two strips and make an angle like the picture below.  I rarely pin the strips, but feel free if it’s helpful.  Sew corner to corner (some people mark this with chalk.  that’s too much work for me.  Just sew straight).  Repeat until you’ve done all your strips.

Next trim off that pesky little corner.

Warm up the iron and get working.  Iron the seam and then iron the binding in half so the wrong sides are touching each other.  Sorry, I forgot to photograph this step.  Once you’re finished ironing, you’ll have a long strip of fabric for your binding.

Now let’s get to the actual sewing.  Lay your quilt top front side up.  I start mine in the center of the longer side.  Take the binding and measure off 10 inches.  Pin this to the front of the quilt.  From the 10 inch mark, go back 20 inches and put a pin.  This is your stopping point.

I sew my binding with a quarter-inch allowance.  Start sewing!  You can pin it if you want or just move along slowly.  Make sure that you’re raw edges are lining up.

Sew until you get a quarter-inch from the first corner.  Sometimes I’ll put a pin there to remind me to stop.

I backstitch at the quarter-inch mark.  Cut the thread and pull your quilt out.  Fold the binding over to create a nice angle.  Pin it.  Now fold the binding over the cute angle.  Start sewing at the very top of the side of the quilt.  I usually backstitch because I want a nice corner.

Repeat around the entire quilt.

Sew until you reach that 20 inch pin.  Stop sewing and cut your thread.  I really do believe this part is magic.  Seriously.  I love this part.  Lay your quilt out and smooth out the binding.  Trim the binding so there’s a 2.5 inch overlap.

Pull up the binding and put right sides together.  Sew on the diagonal like the picture below.  Test to make sure it worked.  Flatten it and check the binding.  If it worked, trim off that little triangle.  Go back to where you stopped sewing and finish up the binding.  If there’s too much binding, your 2.5 inches wasn’t a proper 2.5 inches.  Try again.

Tada!!  Magic binding!

I hand sew my binding.  It  looks nicer and I sew too fast to machine stitch it.  And I really find this part of the quilt therapeutic   I didn’t take pictures to explain how I hand stitch it because this blog does a great job of explaining it.  Once you master this technique  your binding goes on so quickly.  Pour yourself a drink, put on a good movie, and get stitching.

Sometimes my seam allowance wasn’t as accurate as a quarter inch.  Maybe I got sloppy.  I keep a scissors handy and sometimes I’ll trim a little off the raw edge.  You want the binding to fit tightly over that raw edge.  I pull mine until it covers the sewing line.  Be very careful at the corners.  If you trim off the top of the corner, you will trim into the quilt and it will look like shit.  Sometimes you can’t fix that.  I know from awful experience…  When you’re binding the corners,  pull it over and handsew to the very end.  Make a little miter and then tack it flat.  This is the kind of thing that you’ll just have to play with.

Any questions?  Enjoy this part because you’re almost done.

One Second Every Day

One day in the beginning of May, I was scrolling through my Tumblr app.  I stopped on a Photojojo post about  the One Second Everyday app.  I instantly knew I had to do one more daily project.  I rarely take videos of my children, but I always want to.  It’s a hump I can’t get over.  This would help.  And really?  It’s one second.  If I don’t have time for one second, I’m royally fucked.  There’s no editing.  There’s no hunting for pictures.  Every thing is stored and edited on my phone.  I just have to remember to do it.

It’s a fun app.  You open it and shoot a video.  Once the video is done, you pick the best one second and cut it.  You’re able to take multiple videos during the day, but once you cut a second it shows up in your calendar.  All those other videos are saved in the day’s queue, but only one video gets the coveted One Second Spot.  Movement is key!  If something isn’t moving, the clip hurts the entire montage.  One non-moving second feels like it’s ten boring seconds.  The app saves the audio too.  I thought it’d be distracting, but it isn’t too bad.  I just prefer music.  A pretty big Con is how slow it opens.  You have to open it way in advance of  your big moment.  This is not a “I want to catch quick random moments” thing.  You need to have a little thought on what you want to One Second.  When it saves the clip, it also takes plenty of time.  If you head back to the home screen before the wheel stops moving, say good-bye to the clip.

I’d love to finish a whole year of One Second clips.  There’s something so satisfying about watching the days fly by.  Hearing a little snip of my kid’s laugh.  Watching someone dance to an old tune.  I love watching the rituals of the day pile up whenever I compile some seconds.  Here’s my first month.

May 4 :: June 4

One Second a Day (May 4 :: June 4) from Erika Ray on Vimeo.

Jen - Love!! Must try!!June 5, 2013 – 8:48 am

Annie - This is very cool and I’m so glad you shared this! I will have to try it out:)June 5, 2013 – 9:51 am

Caitlin Domanico - This is awesome! I can’t wait to try it.June 5, 2013 – 12:33 pm

Erika Ray Photography - Yay! When you do share it with me! I’d love to see it.June 5, 2013 – 12:42 pm

Carol Klein Ray - That was fantastic, can’t wait to see more!June 5, 2013 – 12:49 pm

Erika Dyer Ray - I can’t wait for you to be in some of them.June 5, 2013 – 12:55 pm

Bryn Campbell Nealis - Love it!June 5, 2013 – 1:44 pm

Carol Klein Ray - Yikes, you sure about that?
June 5, 2013 – 2:38 pm

Claire Rotenberger - Awesome! I think I’m going to have to do this! :P June 6, 2013 – 12:50 am

Monica Calderin - That is so cool! Going to have to check it out! That would be so awesome as a year project for an end of the year family video!June 6, 2013 – 1:59 am

mara - this is amazing! what a great idea. thank you so much for sharing!June 6, 2013 – 12:45 pm

Jackie Cuervo - @[1061104396:2048:Monica Calderin] very cool!June 6, 2013 – 1:19 pm

Jennifer Zandee Engelbrecht - Oh my GAWD this is epic. EPIC. I’m so fracking stoked I can barely stand it.June 11, 2013 – 11:45 am

Lazy Gal Quilts

Sorry for the delay on this post, but really it’s the easiest part: the quilting!  It’s also pretty important.  Without it, the entire quilt is just a bunch of fabric.

I’m not an artistic quilter.  I’m pretty lazy about it.  I look at the quilt and decide what type of quilting is going to highlight the blanket.  Sometimes I quilt on a diagonal.  The Scrappy quilts had a diagonal pattern to it, so quilting on the diagonal helped shove the pattern in your face.  Sometimes I randomly quilt straight lines all over the place.  If the quilt pattern isn’t defined, this is kind of fun.  For the Lazy Gal and other simple patchwork quilts, I like echo quilting.  It helps the simple pattern pop.

I have a walking foot for my machine.  If you plan on quilting, this is a really good investment.  It helps feed the fabric through your machine and keeps it nice and flat.  I’ve always used white thread to quilt with.  I’m lazy like that.  If not, I’d stress over the color.  I’m sure if I made a black quilt, I’d use black.  My goal is to see the quilt and not necessarily the quilting.  The quilting should be a whisper.  Or that little spark that makes you want more.  In my opinion…

Thread your machine.  Test your bobbin tension on some scrap material. Roll your quilt towards the center.  Put the presser foot on the left of the center block.  Quilt!  Gently grab the quilt and put your presser foot now on the right of the same center block.  Quilt.  Move to the next block on the right and continue until you’ve done half the quilt.  Turn the quilt and attack the left side.  Once all the rows have been quilted, you don’t have to be as careful with the quilt.  Start on the columns.  Before you know it, you’ll have a quilted blanket!

 

 

Mary Harper - now I want to see the whole thing! you may call this lazy, but I think it’s amazing.June 3, 2013 – 1:15 pm

Lisa MacIntosh - get these on etsy! you do fab work e xo.June 3, 2013 – 2:01 pm

Firsts

I should call the second half of 2013: The Six Months of Firsts.  Very soon, I will start a new job.  It will be the first time in 13 years that I will not be able to report to the office in my pjs.  It will be the first time in 13 years that I will be unable to do all our grocery shopping at 2 p.m.  I will no longer be able to work while the boys are sick and still not miss a conference call.  No more quilting in between appointment.  No more early elaborate dinners on our stove.  This is going to be difficult…

For a little bit.  Change always is, right?  My parents have literally laughed at this life-change.  ”You have no idea” is what they’ve loving said.  And they’re wrong, I totally have an idea!  It’s going to be huge.  But I’m ready for it.  I realized before the lay-off that my old job wasn’t really necessary “as-is”.  It was only a matter of time and they finally looked at the clock.  So now it’s my time to accept it.

I always felt like a sham of a Working Mom.  Minus the days I wasn’t over-night or the days I spent driving 400 miles, my version of Working Mom was easy.  That ease disappeared with the lay-off.  I am extremely fortunate that I was able to work my old job while the boys were very young.  Yes, being in a hotel was very difficult while nursing.  When the boys were sick and cried for me over the phone, that would crush anyone’s heart.  Miles spent alone in a car could be extremely destructive and lonely.  But I always looked at my job for the benefits it gave me and not for the ickiness it sometimes provided.  I plan on continuing this attitude.

I’m very lucky.  I will get to work in a big office where I know at least one good friend.  I will get to wear casual clothes and not have to buy an entire business wardrobe.  I’m also lucky because I had people looking out and advocating for me.  I get to return to an industry that I’ve been with for 13 years.  It’s a change and I’m taking it with a spoonful of sugar.  Any other way isn’t worth it.

Hang with me during these changes, won’t you?  I’ll work on getting the next Lazy Girl quilt post up.  It’s by far the easiest part of the series.  I’ll still be updating my 365.  I’ll still be photographing and writing about our life.  I can’t quit y’all.  This is just a new path for me to wander down.  A path that will be full of newness.  There’s got to be some good posts in that, right?

I plan on celebrating the end of an era until I start.  I think I’ve got a little more than a week.

Let’s get this party started!

 

 

Xanthe - All the best with this transition… if anyone can do it – you can. And we’ll all be cheering you on xxxMay 30, 2013 – 10:43 am

Imene - I am happy for your new job. I am sure you will adapt to the changes very well.
Having to dress in the morning can be fun said the lady who is still in her Jammie’s at noon :-) May 30, 2013 – 11:37 am

Sarah - that is SO great. change is in your pocket. congrats!June 5, 2013 – 1:16 pm

Let’s Do This, Summer

Ever since we bought this house, we’ve been waiting for Summer.  One of the “requirements” for the new backyard was a sunny spot.  I’m pretty sure my thumb is black, but I’ve never been able to accurately test it.  The new house had to have sun.

We’re also big fans of the Backyard party.  For us, it has always been the perfect way for parents to be able to hang as adults.  The children are contained and we get to chat for sometimes 15 minutes.  Depending…

So we’ve got sun and space, we’ve just been waiting out the days.  I hate to sweat and mosquitos love me, but I’m pretty damn excited for 2013′s Summer.

This weekend, we welcomed our new Summer.  I know… Summer doesn’t officially start for a month.  But in our house and most houses, Memorial Day rings in the season.  On Saturday, we braved garden centers and home improvement stores to start the first garden.  Sunday we had a small party and I forgot to take pictures.  But I did snag a few of our adorable guests.  Finally on Monday we wrapped it up with some projects, races, basketball, and some grilling.

I hope your holiday got off to just as good of a start.

Sweat be damned.  Bring on the stink.

Start of Summer from Erika Ray on Vimeo.

Carol Klein Ray - Looks like the start of a great summer!May 28, 2013 – 2:23 pm

Mara Wolff - That was amazing! I loved the sprinkler sequence at the end. And the music, perfection. Thanks for sharing.May 28, 2013 – 3:40 pm

Jessica Thomason - Love this! Happy summer!May 30, 2013 – 8:25 pm

Mama Sway

I thought I was like every other photographer.  I like to find the story within the frame.  That’s how everyone shoots right?  Sure some people are portrait photographers and some are wedding, but when they shoot their lives they look for what they want to remember.  That’s how everyone shoots right?

After the breakout I saw REAL thrown out all over the place.  It was in the name of my breakout, so it seemed natural.  But someone said a comment, “Let’s throw out the word REAL because there’s no such thing as a fake photo.”  Thank you!  She was so right.  But then…  I realized she wasn’t.

Some people don’t shoot REAL.  Some people craft and clean a scene for what they think they want to remember.  This is fine.  Yesterday I karate kicked a stuffed green frog out of the way because it’s all my eye went to in the frame.  But when you scrub and over create a memory for the scene something is lacking in the photo.  The magic is thrown into the dust pan.

I’m over the word Real, Lifestyle, and Storytelling is even starting to bug me (I get bugged easily).  I didn’t think we needed to give ourselves titles.  I thought we were all just photographers catching life.  Bending it slightly to make the frame beautiful.  Moving the light to make the scene glow.  But I guess we do need titles.  I’m not a wedding photographer.  I’m not a portrait photographer.  I’m a “When I’m on the Edge of Dementia That Photo Made Me Proud to Live Life” photographer.

Everyday there are scenes unfolding that make me happy to be apart of them.  My sons working together to defeat Darth Vader in a Wii game.  My kids running through the Christmas tree lot.  90% of the time, I know what I’m capturing and I know why.  But 10% of the time, there’s a surprise chunk of life that I didn’t notice until I started processing.  Yesterday, the 10% hit me.

I was able to met up with my past two birth clients.  I asked Staci to move under the shade of a large tree.  I wanted to shoot Owen as he rested over her shoulder.  Staci kept rocking him back and forth.  I almost asked her to stop, but I fired off a few frames and got a little smile.

When I flipped through the frames, I saw that 10% flash through my screen: The Mama Sway.  Have a baby.  That baby grows up.  Hold a newborn.  Watch your hips rock back and forth on instinct.  You can’t stop it.  The Mama Sway becomes etched into your bones.  You can’t turn it off.  It’s now part of your DNA.  Motherhood changes your body in ways we can see: c-section scars or saggy breasts.  But also in ways we can’t: your tone when something is dangerous, how you read a story while juggling 4 different character voices, and the Mama sway.  It’s your comfort mechanism and it doesn’t discriminate.  That’s what I want to remember when I can barely remember my own name.  How we comforted our babies.

stephanie - haha. the other day I was holding beach towels waiting for my children to come in from the sprinkles and totally had the mama sway going as I cradled the towels in my arms. it just doesn’t stop. love this post, erika. you’re a storyteller whether you like it or not.May 24, 2013 – 9:45 am

amy grace - you are a truth machine.May 24, 2013 – 10:34 am

Keri - I catch myself swaying all the time. Holding my boys or not. Etched in. Love this Erika!May 24, 2013 – 10:57 am

Shelby - I’m not even a mama yet but i do the mama sway when comforting babies i’m caring for.May 24, 2013 – 12:52 pm

Jill - I start to sway even when I’m out in oublic and someone else’s kid starts crying… It’s subconscious movement!May 24, 2013 – 1:02 pm

Suzanne Gipson - yes. to all of it.May 24, 2013 – 1:02 pm

Marisa Cieloha - Beautiful!May 24, 2013 – 3:21 pm

Staci Hiles McCool - Damn you! You always make me cry.May 24, 2013 – 4:34 pm

Anonymous - I may be biased but he is the cutest Lil man ever! My kids are 20,18 and 12 that sway is definitely engraved in your brain!May 24, 2013 – 6:36 pm

Lisa Sauder - Love this! So precious. And your post about the “mama sway” is so true!May 25, 2013 – 12:58 am