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Monthly Archives: June 2014

It takes one study for me to find a particular behavior acceptable.  I read once that wrestling for boys wasn’t a bad thing. “It’s how boys show love.” some fancy schmancy PhD. I kind of needed a study.  I didn’t get the wrestling.  See, girls don’t really wrestle with their sisters.  Not for fun anyways.  And […]

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I’m easily swayed. That’s not really true. I’m easily obsessed.  So pair that with being bored (yes Ma, I said I’m BORED.  Sorry…) and you’ve got a potential slew of nonsense spouting from my mouth. Sometimes I look in my FB or Twitter feed and notice the entire world is on to something.  I start to think that […]

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Coop waited a while to play Apples to Apples with the entire family. It was worth the wait. Brothers

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Projects have a strange way of proving that life moves quickly or can drags ass. The first month of One Second Round 2 proved a healthy mix of both.  I started with a high level of confidence: I got this life change!  Mid-month hit and my mood dipped: WTF, people?  I’m pissed.  The month began to […]

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I never understood why people didn’t find out the gender of their baby.  Whenever I heard, “It’s one of life’s few surprises” or “I don’t care either way” I would go mental. Trust me.  That day is full of surprises!  Like how bad it actually hurts!  You don’t forget.  Ever.  And  pooping on strangers is […]

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I spend a lot of time discussing Women becoming Moms.  Hell, the birth is kind of their day.  Plus it’s something I know about. However it’s a big day for the entire couple.  Men become Dads at the same time albeit with less pain and discomfort.  But they become Dads too and that’s pretty important. […]

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As a young Mom, I swore my sons wouldn’t play video games.  These words were ridiculous spewing out of my sanctimonious mouth.  My husband, the young Dad, loved video games since the Pong days.  My views were Game Over before it began. But I was going to put limits.  Hard limits.  30 minutes a month on ALL […]

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