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Monthly Archives: January 2014

I believe men and women are different and I believe that makes me a feminist.  Believing that women should act the same as men is ridic.  We’re different.  I do things way better than my husband because my genes make it so.  And so does he.  Because we’re different doesn’t make women lesser and men […]

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The perfect representation of My Life as a Boy Mom. I’ve been quiet here.  Which means only one thing: My Creative Goods needs some nudging.  Every artist has their own Creative Goods.  Those Goods keep an artist alive.  If those Goods get dusty, it becomes really difficult to make them work again. So it’s time […]

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Six.  Those three little letters always define three other letters to me: Boy. Five = Baby. But Six is clearly in the Boy category. He’s a boy now.  Not really a baby. You don’t have to tell me that he’ll always be my baby, because I absolutely know that.  I’ve known that for years.  I’ve […]

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No, I’m not talking about “Your pictures are good because you have a nice camera…”  That’s a bullshit and insulting argument we’ve all heard, grinned and gritted through a polite response. I’m talking about the Editing Argument. You edit a photograph so does it really make you a good photographer?  Or are you just talented […]

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I never check the weather.  Ever.   And then my kids leave the house wearing inappropriate seasonal clothes.  Or I don’t have an umbrella when the entire city knew a storm was coming.  Or I walk to lunch shocked that it’s freezing in December because it was really sunny at 7 a.m.  Checking the weather […]

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I’m not opposed to resolutions.  Nor am I anti-resolutions.  I’m mid-resolutions. I just resolve to be a better person. To be kinder. To scream less. To snuggle more.  With everyone in the house.  Even the new hamster. Read more. Take more stock photography. Take more photos that show actual faces and less details. Or at […]

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